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SESSIONS
I offer a non-judging space for you to work on challenges you may face around sexuality, intimacy, and self-connection.
I don’t believe in quick fixes. I walk with you as you reclaim your desire as something healthy and natural, and reconnect with the wholeness that is always there for you.
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I offer more than a once-off moment of abandonment — I offer a way back to connection, dignity, and belonging.
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Openness, honesty, trust and dignity is what guides every conversation and every session I hold.
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WHAT HAPPENS IN A SESSION?
Session time is YOU time.
This means that it’s not about me, or my needs. I don’t need you to give to me or pleasure me. I don’t need you to meet my needs. I’m honest and clear - and you never need to doubt that.
I’m comfortable saying “no” if i need to. If I feel uncomfortable, I’ll tell you clearly.
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Sessions begin on the first phone-call we have together.
We get to know one another on the call, and then if and when we’re face-to-face.
The only way to get to know someone, is by chatting/talking. We don’t need to talk about your broader life - unless you want to. We talk about whatever is relevant to our time together.
And then - together, we talk about the way forward, and what would be useful for you.
What that might look like depends on what you're aiming to get from the session. It will probably involve touch, breathing, pleasure and movement. I will lead and guide this “hands-on” part of the session, but always by agreement and co-creation - and in line with the purpose, goal, intention or aim that led you to the session.
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WHY HAVE A SESSION?
If what you’ve read so far appeals to you - you may be wondering whether this is for you or not…?
Neither of us really knows the answer to that, but we can do our best to figure it out.
Here are some of the core principles that I base sessions on:
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1. Safety First
I create a space where you can show up without fear of judgment, shame, or pressure. Emotional safety is the ground from which real healing and self-connection can grow.
2. Client-Led Exploration
I trust that every man knows, at some level, what he needs to heal. My role is not to impose a map, but to walk alongside, listen deeply, and reflect honestly.
3. No Fixed Ideas of Manhood
There is no one right way to be a man. Every man is welcomed as he is — complex, feeling, flawed, strong, tender — without being squeezed into cultural moulds or outdated ideals.
4. Honoring Sexuality as Natural/Sacred
Sexual energy is a natural aspect of being human — not a shameful secret.
I support men in reclaiming their sexuality as a source of aliveness, connection, and dignity, rather than confusion, shame, or fear.
5. Compassionate Honesty
I meet my clients with warmth and understanding, but also with a commitment to honesty. Growth often comes from hearing and speaking truths that were once too heavy to name.
6. A Living Path
There is no final destination, only deeper connection. Healing is not about becoming perfect — it’s about becoming more fully, freely oneself.
I honor each client’s pace, each man’s story, and each moment of courage along the way.
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You are welcome exactly as you are — and supported to grow into everything you can become.
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ARRANGING A SESSION
To discuss your interest in a session or to answer your questions, please
send me an email or text message telling me who you are, explaining your interest in a session, and suggesting a few possible times for a call.
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PLEASE REMEMBER:
I don’t answer unscheduled calls. If you'd like to speak to me, we need to arrange a time for a call.
Please save your questions for our call. I
do notrespond to text message questions about my availability if I don’t know anything about you.
The purpose of our text messages is to plan a call, so that we can arrange a session.
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CALLING ME
Please be aware that I’m not always available to take calls.
I keep my phone on silent when I’m busy or unavailable, and not expecting a call - which is why I ask clients to rather SCHEDULE a call to talk. I want to be in focussed and private for our conversation.
I prefer NOT to return unplanned calls as that may lead to me calling you at an inappropriate time.
If we both respect each other’s wishes for privacy and discretion in relation to calls, we’ll all be happy.
Thanks for understanding and respecting this.
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CLIENT FEEDBACK
Please note that the client feedback on my profile relates to when I was offering a different type of session. I don’t like to book sessions through the system, so my feedback is limited by the fact that I make bookings directly, in person.
The existing feedback is also only relevant to that person’s experience - the person who wrote it - and your session might look totally different, depending on many factors.
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